Is Long Distance A Barrier To Love? How To Cope With It (PT 3)



Relationship often times take us to places where we never come back again. Remember the saying "love knows no bound" as we can even love through the four walls of the world. 

People find love in the smallest places and some find love in the more dispersed places as well as people located at different geographical regions or countries still share love and intimacy. 

Read on as we continue with the third part on Is Long Distance A Barrier To Love.

5. Be confident and less stalky

Insecurities are often the fears of this type of relationship which can lead to checking on the partner too often resulting to disturbing calls and texts for wrong reasons. 

This could be worrisome to the other partner as he or she could begin to feel wanting to be detached. 

Even though communication is an essential spice to long distance relationship, it's a way of sharing the daily activities of one and making the other feel loved and welcomed but when this communication is being hijacked by insecurities, it could be detrimental to what you both have built in the relationship. 

Thereby this communication needs to be at a level well accepted by the partners. 

6. Enjoy your alone time with friends and family

Even though you are not with your partner, to limit being so lonely, you need to have your sole time to enjoy yourself with your friends and family. 

You are alone but you are not lonely unless you choose to. Learn new skills, go to the gym more, go to beaches or learn a hobby, have fun hang out with friends. 

There are more fun and lovely things to do without your partner being involved. 

6. Stay clear and woke

Irrespective of the absence of our partner, the lives we live on social media and offline could be off towards the relationship. 

Don't do anything you would not want the other person to see on social media. Self controls and staying out of situations that would jeorpadize your long distance relationship is necessary as we would want our partner to act same way as we do in staying clear. 

If you know that going to club with your friends or having a late night hangout with a group will displease your partner, it's better to stay clear. 

7. Finally give each other pet names, this works like magic as it has a way of striking the love chamber of the heart. 

Long distance actually makes the simplest things to be the sweetest and loveliest, being able to hear your partner's voice, hold their hands, feeding each other, sleeping beside each and doing naughty things together. 

All these can be over exaggerated with partners being so close than those that are far apart. Always make all possible effort to reach out to your partner and stay loved, have unforgettable moments anytime you see and be with each other. 

With these, long distance relationships are a thing to long for if both partners can be committed to make effort to imbibe all these things. 

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